Posts tagged forgiveness
Little by Little

When we open the channels to all that is available to us we can heal – ourselves and the planet.
Simple – not easy.

We are love. We have forgotten this – maybe many lifetimes ago when we forgot our names. We forgot where and what we came from. We do not remember the power, the strength, the courage, the love we once knew.

But it is time to reclaim who we are – remember who we were - to rise up and sing out – to show ourselves in our love and light and glory.

It is time to wake up from the nightmare – breathe in the life. Breathe out the love. And we stand together – arm in arm – not against anything – we stand together.  with love.

Can we begin to love ourselves today – exactly as we are? And can that crack in the wall that lets the light in spill over just a little to others around us – and others around them?

Until little by little, drop by drop, we re-awaken the memory of our long lost selves.

We are here now for a reason – and we need to remember so that we may live from that place.

We have spent decades and centuries pulling ourselves back, covering ourselves over, running away from the truth. 

Sometimes, we get so far from our own truth we get lost in the confusion. We thrash around in addiction and other forms of self-abuse.

But it is all here to teach us to remember to love. 

The great courage and work that it takes to get to the place of remembering is what our journey here is for.

We must get back. We must come back – to our truth. To our souls.

All of these messages that we’ve bombarded ourselves with are lies. We are beautiful enough, smart enough, talented enough, courageous enough – more than enough - way, way more than enough.

We are brilliant, strong, brave and powerful.

It is time to stop pointing fingers at others, take responsibility for ourselves and say yes, ah yes!

This is where I have lived – but today I choose differently.

I have been complicit in my own victimization by continuing to punish myself and others for the state of my life.

Today, I choose to stop retelling that old story and to begin to tell a new one – to extract the powerful lessons that these ordeals have taught me – to forgive myself and others and to rise up.



It’s been more than a year since the Thin White Duke left this realm. And it’s been about as long since I posted here. So much. In the world. In our nation. And in my microcosm.

I’ve released my beloved, my studio and my home in Oakland. So much time spent in the shaken Ball jar of muddy, swirling water. Trying to see clearly when my focus was focused in the wrong direction. Between that and the mud, the time has come to let things settle.

Trust. Free falling into the arms of the Unknown. This is where I find myself. Truly. This is where we all find ourselves at some point if we're willing.


- when we ache inside with the heartbreak of knowing we must release a love – not even fully understanding – but knowing.
- when we are faced with the agony of being called to live in a place a long way away from our child's other parent – but knowing, with the deepest of soul certainty, that she will ultimately benefit (and that we will survive the commute!).
- when we still cannot discern the ultimate plan of the Universe – but knowing that we are supported, and can feel it and have evidence of it.
So much.

We are all being called. Now. To make choices. To pay attention. To know what it is that we do know. That deeper knowing. Our gnosis.

For me, the call is toward sovereignty. Self Sovereignty. A sovereignty that I was denied as a child. As a teenager.

Now, as an adult, I have a choice. Therefore, now, I am the only one denying it.

Wikipedia defines self sovereignty as: the moral or natural right of a person to have bodily integrity and be the exclusive controller of one's own body and life.

As a child who experienced a great deal of physical abuse, as a teenager who was raped in college, as an adult who unconsciously continued to make denigrating choices in an effort to gain love – it is long past time.

I had a great deal of trepidation about writing the above paragraph. I deleted it and added it back again a number of times. But it is, in part, the speaking of these truths that brings me out of this denial. Not in any way to be seen as a victim, but to state the truth. My truth. It is long past time.

The process of reclaiming my sovereignty and making choices that serve the Higher Good by itself is an act of forgiveness. Essential. Self. Forgiveness.

Thus, the focus of Living withMeraki is taking a different tone. It will be one of hope, of reclamation, of joyful re-discovery on this path to self-sovereignty that far too many of us left behind. It is a path of self forgiveness that involves play, insight and a metamorphosis of that relationship to our sensual selves that was distorted and contorted by and for others.

My prayer is that you will be served by the sharing of my experience, strength and hope to come.